04.

single girls ode to dating, is it true that birds of a feather flock together—-i’d like to take the time with this cliche and say no.

birds of a feather don’t always flock together.

me for instance, i have some friends who are hoes, but i’m far from that. i don’t have random hook-ups, booty-calls any of that—-and basically im a twenty one year old virgin. i’ve had “fool arounds,” but nothing serious as you can see with virginity.

just going out with a friend, some of the behavior she exhbited was rather disturbing to me, and i thought to myself—-since people have this perception of you, what do they think of me?

men were fondling on my body, or attempting to fondle on my body—-she was okay with this, but me, myself i am not.

i’m not sure if its because i’m a black woman, so culturally, i have had a level of self-dignity instilled in me at a young age, or whether its the fact that i myself, dont find that behavior to be cool.

just a random thought.

-erin